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Tuesday, August 29, 2023

this one time, at band camp...

I first learned of my high school marching band's reunion back in June. Part of me wanted to go, the other part of me kind of had that deer in the headlights look when I even merely thought about it. I was quiet in high school, and didn't think much of myself with my glasses and braces. I played French Horn and mellophone pretty well, I think, since our band director kept me around for 4 years 🤷🏼‍♀️ So I went back and forth for several weeks before I decided to attend. 

Fast forward to last Thursday: I headed down to my hometown of Winchester, Virginia, to spend some time with my parents, and to attend my high school marching band's reunion. It ended up being such a fun weekend to reconnect (in person!) with the people with whom I spent the majority of my time in high school. 

The event was held at our sleepaway band camp in Hedgesville, WV, at Camp Frame (a 4-H camp). As I pulled up to the camp and saw the Camp Frame sign, I got a lump in my throat, and so many feelings and memories of that camp came rushing back. I got out of my car, threw some sunscreen on, and went inside the dining hall with Allan and Sara. There, I was scream-hugged by our band Aunt June, which confirmed I was definitely in the right place. 

A group of us checked out the cabins... I swear, if those walls could talk, I'm sure they would have some stories to tell! As it was, the stories told by the "boys" were hilarious. Why do the boys always have the best stories?? 

The event itself went off beautifully. The planners really spared no detail.... other than the print of the name tags. Nothing says we're getting older like needing enlarged print! The food was great, and the desserts.. yummy (especially that PB fudge... if whoever made it would like to share the recipe with me, I would love it!). It was fun to check out the campground... not a whole lot had changed. 

It was so much fun to catch up with friends. But the best part of the day was honoring our director, Dan Schoemmell. Some people shared their memories of band camp, competitions, and practices, and Mr. Schoemmell was at the center of those stories. He told us about the bogus cabin inspections.... how the worst cabin would have kitchen duty. He had us kids petrified of them, but in fact, they were designed to take our focus off of the fact that we were up early, to bed late, and marched around in blistering heat and humidity. You know what? It worked! A few years later I figured out that each cabin was going to have kitchen duty, regardless of the state of the cabins.

Mr. Schoemmell was an exceptional leader. He commanded respect, not only for himself, but also for our band parents and for one another... and most important... for yourself. He had demanding expectations for his students: know your material, be early (because to be on time is to be late), be prepared to work hard in class, at band camp, and at home when you practiced your music. You were expected to conduct yourself in a professional manner when at school, or out and about, because wherever you went either wearing your uniform or band apparel, you represented the James Wood Marching Band. 

It was clear that Mr. Schoemmell had an impact on the lives of so many. The reunion was only a small gesture of the gratitude so many of us feel towards him. I'm thankful that I could go... it was a reminder of the lessons that remain with me still today.

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Sunday, May 14, 2023

it takes a village

"It takes a village" has not ever rung truer than it did last week.  

Lulu went to prom on Friday. A lot of work by a lot of people went into making Lulu the prettiest princess ever! First, our friend Lucretia sent home a beautiful selection of dresses. 👗 It took a bit to get Lulu to try on the dresses, and just when we thought she had picked one... well, I'll save that for further along. 

The morning of prom came, and Lulu spent the day getting her hair, nails, and makeup done at school. Her teacher said that she was so good during the process, and everyone just oohed and ahhed over her.  Her school has a cosmotology program, and those students went above and beyond!!



When she got home, Lulu was a little on the obstinate side, and did not want to wear the dress she chose. We brought along the two top dress choices, and headed to her friend Bella's house, because her mom, Jasmine, offered to fix her makeup. Jasmine sure worked her autism mom magic, because Lulu not only permitted the application of more makeup, but also got Lulu into her dress. For fun, Bella put on the other dress that Lulu had originally picked. (Unfortunately Bella couldn't go because you have to be 16, but next year they can go together 💕💕).💅💄

After we arrived at the DoubleTree Hotel, John and I could walk her only in to the lobby, because parents weren't allowed in until the very end.  Initially I was really sad about that, because one of us has accompanied her to everything her whole life.  But then I realized that Lulu is a typical teenager inside, and doesn't need her parents with her for every event... she more than deserves a night to be as typical as she possibly can be.  Don't worry, there were plenty of teachers and paraprofessionals there to support her, including her 1-to-1 aide. 

I really thought that Lulu would be ready to go after an hour.  I am SO happy to report that I was completely WRONG!!

Lulu had an absolute blast!! The room was beautiful, the DJ was great, LULU DANCED (her teacher sent me photos and video)!! And everyone seemed to have a great time!!


***On the way out, I asked Lulu if she needed to go to the bathroom, and she said yes.  As we neared the bathroom, she suddenly took off running.  I sprinted after her as she ran to the other end of the building into the other ballroom where Windsor was having their prom. She left, but not willingly 🤣

Thank you BT BOCES!! So happy that Lulu is part of this amazing program!! ❤️❤️❤️